Guest Column: Why Don't You Want Me?


I'm smart, funny, motivated, borderline good looking, and I make a mean grilled cheese sandwich. Yet, for some reason I still can't attract the schools I want to attend! These are some of the thoughts our athletes share surrounding them not being recruited by the schools they believe are passing them over. Far too often athletes pass up on the school that is actually courting/showing interest to chase the school that isn't remotely interested in what they have to offer. Typically, this situation ends in some type of heartache for the students.

For many student-athletes, since they were able to talk and chant their favorite teams' name, they have envisioned themselves competing for that dream school. They kept every stat, watched every game, and even stayed up late to watch the post-game interviews of their favorite player. They pleaded with their parents to buy them that expensive jersey with the matching hat and even decorated their rooms with the school's paraphernalia. They looked around their rooms and at all of their collection with aspirations of getting that coveted phone call from the head coach of the team, being offered an athletic scholarship to continue their athletic and academic endeavors. Yet, the reality for some of our students, is they will never get that call because of their GPA and standardized test scores.

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